Genetic counselling- What to expect at your appointment

So I sent out some feelers two weeks ago on Twitter, asking for people to share their experiences of genetic counselling. I got a lot of responses but only a few people had actually been for this kind of appointment, with a lot more people asking how to get one.

So to start off, I was referred through a dermatologist for this appointment. I am being monitored for a skin condition potentially related to Ehlers Danlos, and the dermatologist decided I would benefit from finally having an official diagnosis on paper. I was lucky, in that I found a doctor who knew about the condition. I had to be referred through my GP, which took some prompting, and they tested my bloods before sending the referral. The blood tests were to check my ESR levels, which measures inflammation, a test a lot of you might have had done. Despite it coming back with normal levels, I still pushed for the referral and my GP agreed to send it.

Three weeks later (I was referred to Northwick Park in London) I received a letter and an appointment. I was told waiting lists were long, which I expected, and my appointment was booked for May, a 9 week wait in total. I was then fortunate enough a week later to be offered a cancellation, which I took.

I did a lot of research online about genetic counselling appointments and what to expect. My top suggestions to prepare for a GC appointment are:

-Check the doctors background beforehand. make sure you are seeing a doctor who has knowledge of EDS, I asked to see someone specific by looking at the consultant list of the hospital and it was so refreshing to hear her level of expertise.

- Take as much family history as you can. The doctor drew out a sort of health family tree, which meant I had to provide a lot of information, mainly about my parents, their siblings, and my grandparents. Go as prepared as possible.

- Be ready to strip off and do some bending, stretching. I had to demonstrate my hypermobility, so I could be scored using the Beighton score. Dress appropriately!

- Write a list of EVERY symptom you have experienced in your memory, no matter how related it seems to be to EDS/HMS. Also try and remember all the scans and tests you have had in the past, and if you can go with results, take them. It's useful for the doctor, who will never have met you, to be able to get some good background.

-Prepare some questions. This is the kind of appointment you go into wanting to know so much, but it's easy to get carried away by how much the doctor will tell you, so make sure you remember everything that's been playing on your mind, and try and get an answer or suggestion.

-Ask about other clinics. If you need help with joints, ask about physio, if you need help with pain, ask about pain management. Your doctor will be able to refer you on to other clinics if necessary. It's definitely worth asking.

All in all, genetic counselling gave me an official diagnosis of EDS type 3, finally written and recorded and properly communicated to my GP. However I am not being followed up, so I did get a feeling of anti-climax out of the whole thing, as I was hoping for monitoring. However, as the word counselling suggests, these are excellent appointments for advice, so get as much out of your time as possible. Also remember to ask about family members- do they need an appointment too?

You can get more info and help with deciding what to ask and what relates directly to EDS from the Ehlers Danlos UK charity website.

This blog has a dedicated Twitter feed now: @ChronicHealth1 for lots of EDS and hypermobility related tweets. And tweets about food obviously.

Please do also follow @ehlersdanlosuk if you don't already, as it's a great online support system. You can find me @laurenrellis and I recommend anyone struggling with their conditions who isn't on Twitter to sign up, as there is a great online community.